I am sorry for your pain Claudia.

My rule-of-thumb is to never be involved with someone who is in relationship, separated or just out of a long term relationship. They need to process, heal and learn to be on their own in order to be emotionally available for a relationship… period. I don’t care what they say how they were totally “done” with their relationship. I don’t trust their perception of themselves.

Good for you for bettering yourself. You cannot lose for doing that for yourself. Keep focusing on yourself for that is what you need to do regardless of who you have in your life.

He’s moved on. Time for you to move on.
Mark