Others don’t need us – but we need them.

1. assumption that others are fine and whole, we are not.
2. assumption that they don’t need to look outside themselves, but we do
3.  objectifying that this is just the way it is, it is a truth of life (not an opinion)
4. because we need others – we always have to try
5. others may not try with us – because they do not need us

What does this equate to in each statement?

1. we are by nature not fine, we are flawed, we are unlucky – but they are lucky to be fine
2. we must always seek outward efforts, we have no choice
3. this is just the way we are born onto this earth, it is our (poor) destiny
4. we cannot cease trying, ceasing trying = loneliness
5. even if they don’t need to try, we must, because we are the lonely unlucky ones