Dear Claudia:

I re-read your posts. You wrote that you don’t know why he blocked you from texting him. Is it possible that he blocked you because panicked, like you wrote that you were, you texted him repeatedly telling him how much he hurt you, that you hate him for hurting you and such?

(Reads to me from what you wrote that he told you that he was aware of how badly hurt you have been, saying that he has to live with knowing this, something like that. So I am thinking you have let him know how badly hurtful he has been, how badly hurt you were. Then he blocks you).

You wrote in your recent post: “I just don’t know what changed or if it was all a lie?” It was most likely not “all a lie”. But what changed, you ask. Well, two things changed: he received full custody of his son and he moved to his mother’s house in Fresno. There were other changes in his life, employment is a third. What changed in the relationship with you: distance, for one.

So by “I just don’t know what changed”, what do you mean?

anita