Dear Cat:

Yes, pretty straight forward. If he is dishonest at times, and I suppose he is, he is not cemented in dishonesty, he has some social responsibility, some decency, so he has  let you know in no uncertain terms that poetry aside, he … well, you know what he said.

I didn’t understand your last sentence, “a lot of men will put their own weight forward, but when a woman does it back its seen as a bad thing”, you mean the sexual straightforwardness?

anita