If you have another place to sleep you could not sleep with him. Stop cuddling with him and really act like you are on a break. He needs to see what it feels like without your emotional contact. As long as he is getting that he is happy. You have to make him feel what it would be like if you were not in his life. Don’t be mean but be cool and just polite.

You say he checks on you when he feels like you pull away. So this means he doesn’t like it when you don’t give him your emotional energy. So make him feel it so he can come to a decision about you.