Dear Savanah,

Hope there is an improvement in your situation.

You wrote about your letter. Did you get a response from him? Your further communication, I believe should be based on his response.

With a major event like what you described for him, it takes a lot of time till the person involved comes to some level of acceptance about it. That depends so much on the individual involved. There is likely the thinking that – “I should be able to handle it on my own; at the same time any supportive statements will also be appreciated.

Maybe periodic communication to check on his recovery and to offer your support any time he needs it may help.