Thank you Peter.  Having a guy’s opinion is helpful and refreshing 🙂

Romantic feelings, absolutely not.  I thought we could have a good and solid friendship, but I feel like he’s managed to completely put me in the friend box, and I have not.  Again, no romantic feelings, but I cannot not see myself as the ex-girlfriend either, and as such, I guess expect a different treatment.  I’m not just one of “the guys”.  I just wished he was not as clueless of these uncomfortable situations, as you nicely put it.