Dear Risha:

I didn’t understand this statement: “he abuses me in filth”- bad words, you mean?

He told you at one point: “we should leave the country but u have to look into all financial matters coz I can’t afford to do anything”-

well, personally I feel no loss regarding the relationship ending, no loss for you, that is. Having communicated with you for a while, you appear to me as a very intelligent woman, engaging, md interesting, likeable, and very capable and practical. So I figure there have been very few available (single, not way too young or way too old, somewhat functional) men to consider for a relationship seven years ago when he entered your life, as well as before and after. So you settled for what was available to you. Am I correct?

anita