Wow, a whole year since the beginning of the end of that relationship! One whole year. 365 days. You’ve made progress but you’re still stuck. It happens to a lot of people, so you’re not so unusual.

Have you had enough yet?

If not, another 365 days will come and go, and at this time next year you may tell yourself: Two years since my ex went to that wedding and everything changed between us. I would do anything to go back in time and fix what i screwed up. At that time you can ask yourself again if you’ve had enough. If you haven’t, another 365 days will pass and at that time you may tell yourself: Three years since my ex went to that wedding and everything changed between us. I would do anything to go back in time and fix what i screwed up. Will you have had enough at that time?? Maybe, maybe not. Meanwhile life goes on but you remain stuck.

You say: I want to be a strong confident man again. Do you want that now or do you want to wait another year? You get to decide. You get to be who you want to be. If you want it now then make that decision now. Get out a piece of paper and write down exactly who you want to be, and then practice it every day starting today. Before long it’ll become a habit and you won’t even think about it. You will be that strong confident man. But if you would rather wait another year, that’s fine. It’s up to you.

She blocked you. That ship has sailed. Once you decide that you are a strong confident man without her, you are free!

🙂