Yesterday we were texting and i mentioned to him that some day id like him to apologies for all the pain he has caused me and that i love him and will forgive him but he has not yet come to me and admit that he screwed up and that hes sorry. He didnt respond because he had training to go to. He later the evening went to a seminar with his friend so i did not see him all day since yesterday morning. He did not tell me a time of when it would end and he only tried contacting me quite late last night. He tried calling me but something told me that he was going to try talk me into letting him stay over at his friends place which i was not okay with because of the last time during our break he went to visit his friend at work and didnt say a word to me whole evening then later on said his going to stay over at his friends house because of the weather and said our motorbike was having problems ( my intuition new something doesnt add up) and for about a week i was poking at him asking if hes 100% honest with me and he could not answer me which resulted in an argument but a day or 2 later he admitted to lieing and that he and his friend went to a bar and he wasted alot of money on alcohol, i was so disappointing and angry but i just told him that i knew that he was lieing. As i mentioned to you in my earlier threads, his friends are young and they cheat and play women. Am i wrong for having suspicions and not  standing for him sleeping out at friends due to his inability to be responsible and trustworthy. He does not stand for women telling him what he can and cannot do.. when he fell inlove with me, he became more sensitive to my approval and opinion so he never wanted to upset me so he always kept me informed via text or phone call and always did what he said he will do. He had his priorities in check but now he has just gotten comfortable with disappointing me and becomes defensive and distance when i bring up something im unhappy about. He deep down does not respect women all because of what hes mother has done to him so he never wants a woman to have that kind of power over him. Although i have shown him unconditional and loyal love… he has not stayed consistent on his part so my unhappiness is all routed to him changing in selfish ways.