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Hi Ali,
All women have an intuition when something is wrong. The problem is, your intuition is on overdrive, picking up on things that may not be there. Call it a Psychic Auto-Immune Disorder. One little inconsistency and you’re eating away at yourself!
I believe that at some point he messed up. Not in a major way, and probably only once. But you KNOW he did, and can’t prove it… and that’s driving you NUTS. THAT is your problem. Not him.
If you don’t stop at least acting “crazy” around him, he could theoretically break up with you or say, “What the hell? She doubts me anyway. Might as well give her something to doubt ABOUT!”
Best,
Inky