Hello Anita,

I never thought of it that way, but maybe I am invested in the fight.  What is the fight for, then?  Is it to win?  And what is it I’m trying to win?  I like to think I’m invested in the life we have built, and even though part of that life is our marriage, which has been an unhappy one for me, our children are a huge part of the life we have built.

And if I was leaving to exit the fight, then how do I go about doing that?  Just say, “I’m done”?

Airene