@anita

“you can’t make it your attitude because this attitude was formed in his brain during the years of his childhood and yours was formed in your brain during the years of your childhood”

Ah which mean I still have to figure out my key to happiness then?

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Usually his reaction would be the same if it didn’t trouble him much. Actually most of the time I complained about my unsatisfied life (which was not direct towards him). Not everytime he would smile, but most of the time he just kind of chill. I remembered there was 1 or 2 times (about 3 years agwere was saying about him being not good enough and he went really mad. I felt sorry and we talked this over after that.

“How often did you complain to him and what were the first complaints about?”

Not too often I think it would be once a week or so.