Dear Colton

I agree with anita: as long as your girlfriend doesn’t see what she’s doing to you and isn’t aware of it, then nothing can help. You said it yourself: your self-esteem is getting down, you feel that you have to defend yourself over and over,..

A healthy relationship makes people happy, without judgement, without laughing at you, without critizism,…

You wrote that you love her but if you want to protect yourself mentally… you might consider to end the relationship. It’s just a thought…

Riris