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Hi Azelastine,
It sounds like she’s the real loser here.
Reality Check: You are only in your twenties (still young!). You have a job (Awesome!). You seems to live within your means and are responsible (unless you’re not telling us something). In short, you are doing great!
As you know, especially after I’m sure reading finance and success articles, making money is only ONE THIRD of it! The other two:
1. Investing
2. Saving
Throw some of that money into the stock market, be a good steward and watch it grow. DON’T dip into that Principle!! (The secret!)
Then save the money you do have. Live like a cheap bastard. Make it an art form.
Before you know it, you will be a Millionaire at Thirty and a Multi-Millionaire at Forty. You will meet a nice girl who is WORTHY of you! Who WON’T marry you for your money (or dump you for the perceived lack thereof). What a wonderful surprise awaits this girl when she realizes that you can live like a Prince!
The other girl will look on, kicking herself for unceremoniously dumping you, as you live your life, in love, with children, complete with a white picket fence and a dog. And what will she have? Only Karma will one day tell…..
Best,
Inky