J….sending you light and hugs.

Do not go down that slippery slope.  It would be a very costly decision in terms of trust, your inner sense of well-being, etc.  I’m not sure how much of your feelings are from a fantasy in your head about this other person??  We tend to ascribe the things missing in our own relationships to “another person”.

I would challenge you to avoid this other person for a period of time, say 30 days or so.  During that time….put the energy you were expending there on the here and now relationship you have.

Feelings aren’t always meant to be acted on.  Thankfully!!!!

Just my thoughts.  Loleta