Dear  C:

If you meet, when you do, I think it is a good  idea to keep it light and easy. Be as calm as you can be, having minimal expectations, and pay attention to what she says, how she says it, ask an open ended question here  and there,  gently, nothing heavy duty, but still a question that may give  you valuable information. I say open ended questions meaning not leading questions that can be cause her to  feel any kind  of pressure.

Light and easy. I hope you post an update about the  meeting  before it  takes  place or after.

anita