Sona,

Going through the dissolution of a marriage and divorce can put us in an emotionally vulnerable and needy place.  As a guy, we like to connect with vulnerable women especially if we are “nice, gentle.”

I would recommend that you let go of any romantic or guy relationships and work on yourself, i.e. go have fun with groups, find out what you enjoy doing and do it , try new activities, get some counseling to figure out what was your part in the failed relationship and what areas you want to grow in.

Make sense?

Mark, who went through a divorce and is a nice and gentle guy.