Dear Bella:

1. “I am looking for a casual relationship” can be interpreted as a sexual-no-strings-attached relationship, newer terms: a friends with benefits/ hookup kind of a relationship. Better specify casual, not using the word.

2. “wants  to enjoy his life with a partner that has the same values“- specify the values, at least a few of your most  important values (this will include what you specifically mean by “Honorable Gentleman” requirement).

3. “looking to enhance my partner’s life- as well as him mine”- enhance how, specifically?

4. “no drama”- explain clearly what no drama means and how you don’t have the drama that you don’t want your partner to have either.

* It  is very important to be specific, not only because it significantly increased the chances that you get what you want, but you also present yourself as clear, one who knows what she wants, which is attractive. Of course, you should  aim at being clear and  specific on an ongoing basis.

I will be away from the computer for the next sixteen hours or so. Take  good  care of yourself Bella. Looking forward to your next post, the presentation of  your next profile version!

anita