Dear Feathering:

I read part of your recent two posts but I am too tired to read as attentively as I would like. One thing I noticed that you wrote: “I cannot tell who I s decent guy and who is not”- that was true to me as well and it led me to a lot  of dysfunction. It really is necessary to be able to evaluate a man you get involved with, otherwise you operate in the dark.

I can read your frustration with this man cancelling the  meeting  once  and  maybe again. I wish you can relax and unwind, somehow. Getting to a point where you are able to  evaluate a man correctly and build a healthy, loving relationship is a long term objective, possible, but not easy or fast. I hope you have the patience.

I will be back in about 13 hours, will re-read your recent posts and any other that you may add (feel free to add as much as you want), and will reply then.

anita