Kkasxo,

That is an interesting perspective, I feel like the problem is my ex when he is who he is. Flawed and all. He could just as easily wonder why I wouldn’t change and be happy with what was on offer, but it wasn’t good enough I’m afraid. He held back and I could feel it and that’s not a good feeling. But I still love him, or as the book says I’m in love-ness with him. Because apparently if I truly loved him I would let him go and wish him to be happy!

I wonder when or if it will ever change for me. Will I always feel this way and have low self worth. I can’t ever imagine a day where I genuinely think I’m the bees knees!