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Dear Lisa:
I read and watched the story line and photos from the movie Ever After because you wrote about it, how you can relate to the character Danielle.
The story takes place in France in the 16th century. Auguste de Barbarac, a widower and father to 8 year old Danielle, marries a woman, Rodmilla de Ghent, a haughty baroness with two daughters, Marguerite (cruel) and Jacqueline (kind). Later he dies of a heart attack. By the time Danielle is 18, the estate has fallen into decline and Danielle is forced to be a servant to Rodmilla and her daughters.
One day Danielle stops a man from stealing her father’s horse, it was Prince Henry…. Later, King Francis tells Henry that he is throwing a masquerade ball where he must choose a bride… Meanwhile, Rodmilla schemes to marry Marguerite to Henry. Later… Danielle catches Rodmilla and Marguerite stealing her mother’s dress and slippers. When Marguerite insults Danielle’s mother, Danielle punches her and chases her through the manor... Later Danielle is whipped as punishment… Later she is locked in the pantry by Rodmilla but Da Vinci helps free her, and makes her a pair of wings to wear to the ball with her mother’s dress and slippers. In the ball, Rodmilla exposes Danielle’s identity (as her servant) and Henry angrily rejects Danielle. Danielle bursts into tears and runs away, leaving a slipper behind… Danielle is sold to a lecherous landowner who makes sexual advances towards Danielle, but frees her after she threatens him with his own weapons. Henry finds her, apologizes to her, calls her by her true name, places the slipper on her foot and proposes to her. .. Later, Rodmilla is stripped of her title by Queen Marie and she and Marguerite (Danielle is introduced to them at this point as Prince Henry’s wife) are sentenced to work as servants in the palace laundry. Jaqueline, because she was kind to Danielle, is spared of this punishment, marries Laurent, the captain of the guard who she met at the ball and moves into the palace with the royal family.
About the movie, a critic said (Wikipedia): “This novel variation is still set in the once-upon-a-time 16th century, but it features an active, 1990s-style heroine- she argues about economic theory and civil rights with her royal suitor- rather than a passive, exploited hearth sweeper…”
You wrote about the scene at the ball: “Imagine someone telling that character well t he way you were treated is all your fault. Danielle is outspoken and it does cause her grief. That is certainly true.”
My thoughts: Danielle is made to be a servant and treated poorly by her evil stepmother (and evil step sister) following bad luck, Danielle’s mother dying, then her father remarrying an evil woman and then, her father dying, leaving Danielle to the mercy of her evil stepmother and stepsister. It is similar to your story having been born into bad luck, being sent away as a baby, then growing up with an older sister who actually was your birth mother, unbeknownst to you, thinking your grandparents are your parents, and that their older children are your siblings, spending lots of time in your room alone, escaping the drama in the house by blocking your room door, staying inside, daydreaming of a better life, of love.
And like Danielle, you have strong opinions and you voiced them and you too are strong and courageous, but unlike Danielle you didn’t meet a prince and didn’t marry him.
You wrote “Ella” when you meant to write Danielle at one point. Ella was the character who played Cinderella in the 2015 movie Cinderella. In that movie Ella lost her mother at a young age, promises “to follow her mother’s dying wishes: to have courage and be kind” (quote from Wikipedia, these are your values, Lisa: courage and kindness, just like Ella’s!), Her father remarries Lady Tremaine who has two daughters. Ella welcomes her new stepfamily, despite the stepsisters’ unpleasant attitudes. Lady Tremaine slowly reveals her cruel and jealous nature when Ella’s father goes abroad for business, as she pushes Ella to give up her bedroom to the stepsisters for the attic. Ella’s father unexpectedly dies during the trip and Lady Tremaine dismisses the household to save money and forces all of the chores on Ella.. she and her daughters mock Ella and forbid her from eating with them… Later, on the night of the ball, Ella tries to join her stepfamily, but lady Tremaine and her daughters tear her dress to shreds and leave without her. Ella runs into the garden in tears (she didn’t punch or threaten with weapons, that is, she didn’t fight like Danielle did) and meets an old beggar woman who reveals herself to be her Fairy Godmother. The Fairy Godmother magically transforms a pumpkin into a golden carriage.. and she transforms Ella’s ripped dress into a gorgeous blue gown, complete with a pair of magical glass slippers.
I wonder, Lisa, when you were a young girl in your grandparents’ house, older siblings around, lots of drama, loud voices and you alone in your room, blocking the door so no one can get in, were you reading Cinderella (the story before Ella and Danielle), daydreaming about being Cinderella, being discovered by a prince, rescued from that house, delivered from being invisible or unappreciated into being seen and valued as the princess so to speak, the princess that you really are…?
anita