Hi Anita, I have not had opportunity to tell her as she has only ever been back into the office briefly, also she is still recovering so I do not want to put her under stress.

I have told colleagues about it but it still hurts when they seem to care but as soon as ths woman walls through the door they act like her best friend. I feel like it’s a betreyal almost. If anyone does something to my friends I do not befriend that person.

From my knowledge she does not know I know, and I have no proof that they even know they hit my bike.

I would like to tell her but I don’t want to be the bad guy here nor do I want to put myself at more risk from this incident. I am more hurt that nobody seems to care about backing me up, it is like this has damaged my relationship with all of my colleagues. I know that your colleagues aren’t ‘real’ friends generally but I thought there was some factual loyalty there and it feels like that’s been taken away.

I do not think anyone would support me if I confronted her. Not even because they care about her really, I feel like they would side with her because that’s the easier position to take with less effort needed.

I’m infuriated that all I can do it accept it. It makes me so angry.