Dear BB:

When  you told your colleagues about what you believe happened, you were hoping that they will give her the cold shoulder, express anger at her themselves?

If you are sure that she did damage your motorcycle and then left the scene, and that she  knew it was  your motorcycle, I would tell her if  I  was you. I would tell her the few reasons you believe it was her.

I don’t think it will damage her brain, it is not like it is possible for her  to live a stress free life, and it is not  like you will be abusing her or threatening, you will simply express your anger in a clear yet contained way.

anita