Honestly I don’t expect them to ostracize her or anything but I didn’t expect them to do a complete 180 and act like her best friend either. Prior to her surgery this woman had angered most of the office. It’s a long story but she was generally disliked, she is the kind of person who would be your friend to your face and then rat you out to management. She has actually done this to me already. My closest friend here actually hated this woman but now after the surgery she actually went to her house with a gift and is calling and texting her like best friends.

I don’t expect them to stone her and throw her out if the building but they’ve completely overlooked how she’s treated me and continue to be not just her friend but better friends than ever. As if they haven’t all hated her not long ago. And their feelings were justified, she was very unpleasant. She was a jerk to me even before all of this because I didn’t invite her friend to my wedding (her friend was another colleague who decided he didn’t like me, I never found out why).

It’s like I’m not allowed to be angry because she’s had this surgery. Even if I mention it people just react as if I’m blowing it out of proportion or being silly. They don’t say so but they don’t care and you can tell with their tone.