Dear Flavia:

I would like to understand what you mean by “a kind of sense of urgency”?

I think that your “so strange  and confused” is what happens when we see the ground we walked on all these years differently. We aren’t walking stable on it like before. Does that make sense  to you?

All those years growing  up and during this long marriage you adjusted to the way things were in your life. You adjusted well. Now, things have changed and you see how things really were all along. It is almost (is it?) like waking up from a dream.

I hope to read from you soon, let’s continue to talk. No timeline to our talks, but if it helps you, please post again, anytime you’d like.

anita