Dear Cali  Chica:

Yes,  I read your second post before posting to you today, but it  is clear to me that  your main challenge at this time  is your relationship with your sister, this is why I attended to it. Regarding the win-win you mentioned  in your second post, when I talk about your relationship with your sister and mine with my sister, that is a  win-win. It  is  a win for  me because I understand better through communication with you.

Your relationship with your sister can take you down, it has that  power. I think it is important to look  at it more. Do you want to tell me more about the current relationship with  her?

anita