H – I feel like there is something more going on with this situation than just you wanting to maintain a friendship with this man. Is there? Do you have other people in your life? Is there loneliness? From the outside looking in, I feel you have an unhealthy obsession with him. Based on what you wrote, I feel he has set some boundaries with you (by not responding to messages and clearly indicating he does not want a relationship) and you continue to inundate him with them. Why is that? I feel taking a break from your phone and the messaging would be best for right now. Let him respond. Let him take the next steps. You can’t force or push him. It may end up scaring him.

As you initially wrote, you have never met this man. I feel there is an unhealthy element of fantasy involved on your part that needs to be looked at. What could the root causes of that be?