Hi Andrea,

There is a huge difference between a woman pushing 30 and a 25 year old guy. That’s number one. Women in their thirties are by and large family oriented and need their nest. Men (boys) in their twenties are just thinking about their nests, or not at all. Let the men in their twenties build their nest! Leave them alone! Find a guy who’s your age, or, better, older!

The other part is, you ended up with him because a guy you were obsessed with turned you down. So you went for this young guy (subconsciously) to redeem yourself, to prove a point, to prove yourself to yourself that you’ve still got it. You thought (subconsciously) that a younger guy would treat you like a queen, worship you like a goddess, or, at the very least, treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

So now what has happened is this younger guy has, in fact, rejected you, but he never outright rejected you with his words. But his (non) actions speak volumes, doesn’t it?

Seek a guy your age or older.

Best,

Inky