Dear Anita,

** I am re-posting this, since I noticed my previous post had just too many typos. Hopefully it is more understandable now.

That is exactly what I tried to do when in online dating, during the last year many guys just dissapeared while texting, others after our first date, and I totally got it, there was not an inmediate chemistry during that first date (or first real life interaction).

However with this last CX guy, we saw each other more than a couple times, and text daily through the day, I would say we were about to decide if moving to a relationship or not when he dissapeared, that is what makes it hard for me, plus it brings back the bad memories of the experience I mentioned before, because of the sex topic that was the last topic we talked about. During those last days I was not seeing anybody else, which hit me more.

Kay