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I believe you are right in some ways. I’m really trying to give this a solid try. If i do decide she needs to be gone, I do want to wait a little bit so she can get back on her feet though. I know these were her decisions, however I did have influence in them as well. I just don’t feel right with myself making her leave when she is this position.
I have given this a lot of thought though. I really do think i would be happier on my own. I do need more time for me to figure out me. Especially since I do still think about my ex more than I should. I should be thinking about my girlfriend. Not my ex. And if she (my girlfriend) was meant for me, then i wouldn’t be able to stop thinking about her.
And my girlfriend will talk about life plans and things like that, I don’t get excited like I should. I’ve felt that before with someone else and I just don’t with her.
I just wished I would have waited to move her in. It felt like the right thing to do at the time and wanted to do it before the school year.