Dear Christina:

You are welcome. I understand that the kiss-on-the-ear bothers you so much because of the following:

1. You lost control, were impulsive.

2. You did something out of character, a character you previously expressed that strives to be perfectly loyal, perfectly honest, perfectly trustworthy.

3. You kissed the guy because you are “a very big people pleaser” and it bothers you that you are a people pleaser, you don’t want to be that anymore.

Do  I understand correctly, and if not, can you correct what I listed above so to make it as correct/ exact as possible?

anita