Dear Cali Chica:

You are on a healing path that few take on and persist in it. It is a path of creating rather than reacting, paying attention, being mindful instead of inattentive and mindless. It is a path of inserting logic and sensibility into illogical and insensible thinking/ goo in those neuropathways formed long ago.

Good job at doing no harm this month!

Better that you prepare, by the way, for the next time your sister supposedly needs your help, practice your do-no-harm/ no help behavior with her when she approaches you next with a crisis in her mind and life.

anita