Hey Kkasxo – so good to hear from you again. You don’t have to offer anything right now, life is all about give and take – right now I suspect you need to be strong enough to accept help, not want to give it still…   Did you ever manage to get any help from your doctor, I know it’s not easy.  You also don’t have to feel like it’s not fair to be sharing your pain if it will bring others down – we all choose to be here, it’s my choice to spend my time listening and helping where I can. I’m grateful to others who helped me through my dark days just by listening and understanding, if I can pay some of that back through helping you and others here now that I’ve healed, it’s worth it to me.

Shelby – hope it gets better soon, is there anything that helps or is it literally a wait for it to do its thing and go again? But yeah, probably not the frame of mind for a fairy godmother list – though an obvious item number one I suppose.

Take care both.