Dear Kkasxo:

If I understand correctly, your ex boyfriend caused you to experience a trauma and PTSD following that trauma. The trauma itself consisted of a series of events in the summer of last year that happened after a difference of opinions between you and your boyfriend. Those events included, if I remember correctly, his mother sending you abusive texts and showed up in your  place of work.

Your mother was aware that your boyfriend caused you trauma but treated his behavior as a mistake, a human mistake, letting you know that she will fully support you if you resume a relationship with him. Recently she had a change of heart and now disapproves of you having any contact with him and his family. You wrote that it is a shock to you that she recently had this change of heart.

Why is it a shock to you- Did you ask her why the change of heart?

anita