That makes sense, to answer your question about my grandma, she pretty much emotionally abuses me. Shes constantly fluctuating from being sweet and all lovey to like putting me down, trying to get me in trouble with my mom, making rude comments.

Like last night she and I were talking about the oscars or whatever going back and forth, not fighting but in a discussion, and I was like ” haha I love you” like just in the moment, and she got serious and was like ” No, no you dont, you’re lying”. She was like dead serious. And to be honest shes said that before and I was hurt, but this time it was a genuine wake up call.

The thing I struggle with is how to maintain this relationship or how to handle all this.