Dear Anita,

You are right.

This weekend I enjoyed my time with my husband, we spent time with a variety of different people, friends, family, etc.  Many people were in town (which often happens in NYC).

This time around however, unlike before,  I was able to keep my eye on the priority.  Prior, I would lose myself in the group.  In the sense that my husband would not be the forefront of my mind, when in a large group, or perhaps pulled in different directions.  Moreover, I would not see spending time with a large group as also an opportunity for quality time with my husband.  But it can be, if my mind is prioritized on us.  In a  way, it is like this – eye on the prize.