Hi Jill, & Welcome! I hope you enjoy the community that Tiny Buddha has!

I struggle with saying, no. I always have. I hate disappointing people, even if it means I put myself on the back burner.

I agree with what you’re saying though, would I be okay with a friend being treated this way? Absolutely not. I’d likely tell them, stick up for yourself! Isn’t it easy giving the advice, yet, always difficult to take the same advice.  I need to start living life for myself, and not others.

Thank you for reaching it! =)