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March 6, 2019 at 10:51 am #283349
Inky
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Hi Guatam,

It sounds like it’s time to Define the Relationship. What my husband did was say, “I’d like to date you exclusively if the feeling is mutual.” It was kind of awesome. It took my feelings into account. There was mutuality. It was respectful. And he was clear.

Of course, she could shoot you down with the ancient I just want to be friends line. But at least she’ll know how you feel and what you want.

Best,

Inky