Dear Gautam:

“I’ve this fear of being rejected and losing the bond we share and so I don’t directly express my desire of more from this bond”.

Your desire is to have a romantic relationship with her (“I’m romantically interested in her”).

You are afraid to ask her to be your girlfriend because you are afraid you will lose her altogether.

But she has been less available to you recently (“I’m more into her than before but she seems to be less available than before”)- how is she less available and is it possible that she is involved romantically with another person?

anita