Hello Anita, he is completely blind. I thought I had mentioned it. Yes a blind man. Who put me through hell. After this discussion and trying to consider he is not a narcissist I did something I probably shouldn’t have. I reached out to the women who were contacting me after break up. Since at that time I just blocked them. This woman told me the craziest of things. He is sick this man. She said all of the things he did to me, claimed he loved her for months and even tried to have a baby????? Then was getting caught in pathological lies and then woman reaching out to her. Said he owes her hundreds as he was getting money from her. She says he does this to a lot of women. I’m so sick to my stomach. I was sleeping in a bed next to this man for years thinking I was safe and in love. How does that happen? I can’t focus after that. It’s so traumatizing. If that’s not a disorder, what do you consider it? It’s sick. It’s not normal. It’s not a normal affair. He is doing this to many many women since our break up. I’m so drained ? And at the same time I feel bad for him? How could I miss it think of someone who is doing this? It’s disgusting. I just know he was good to me but broke me down eventually. I think he tried to have something normal but he can’t even help himself. He believes these lies. He is so sick now. How could I not care when he was in my life for 5 years?