Hi Anita,

So during our relationship he was using phone chat lines and staying in contact with woman he met who were from all over the states. He would receive money from some and was giving money to some. There was only 1 physical relationship he had that I know of during our time together. He was saying he was at work and going to meet up with a woman for what seems like years. I’m not sure how frequent or how sexual but I found pictures from 2 years of them on her Facebook account. There may have been more physical but I am not sure. Also this man is blind, I did drive him everywhere when we were together besides work. He uses a transportation service. But since we were together most of the time I did all the driving but he is a very independent blind man which may be hard to envision for some. He is cabable of getting around through a service, through uber and lyft services as well.

And yes, this woman met him at his place, come to find out only 3 times and I guess during those 3 times “tried to get pregnant”. I know it’s sounds crazy….it is!!!!!

Regardless, I’m not sure why I reached out or continue to look for closure when I’m sure you can agree closure is slapping me in the face with all of the disgusting things he did and continues to do.

I guess the hardest part is accepting I was just another girl to him. It seems that way since he continues an exact pattern except with me it was long term, we lived together and joined families. So it seems I was the main course and these other woman were side dishes. So gross. So hurtful! For me and for these women he pathologically lies to! Narcissistic? I think so ?