I meant to put re. choice 4 – threaten her with #3.  Sorry for the typo.

How would I know she had changed… I would get a report back from the OPG when they had completed their investigation.

At the moment I am favouring #2, but that won’t put a stop to anything, it will just cover my back, and won’t help my mother at all.

Every time you try “to keep the peace”, every time you communicate with her although it is not necessary, you are hurting yourself.

I agree. I’ve been doing just this for the most part of my life. And I know only I can stop it. It’s not easy.

There are now three people living off my mother’s funds, did I tell you? Her husband has moved in officially now. He is also living there and not contributing either in any way, in addition to my sister. 🙁

The solicitor said that what my sister is doing is illegal.

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