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Hi AEG,
You are obsessed with this (not pretty, poor, on meds/drugs, etc., etc., etc.) woman because:
SHE turned YOU down!
You committed the most egregious sin that she saw right through: YOU (“you??”) tried to HELP her! She was insulted. She instinctively, in her quantum physics yet drug addled brain, immediately shut you down long term. She wants a “young tough guy with a compatible horoscope”! (Don’t we all?) Her excuses were so gentle, and yet outrageous, don’t you see? She was letting you down gently. If she’s going to be helped by anyone, she’s not going to be “helped” by a dull older guy wearing the same gray suits.
She is, in fact, your equal (sorry), not easy romantic prey.
Best,
Inky