Dear Cali Chica:

I am more humble about the healing path than I was when I first started to communicate with you. It is slower than I thought it was, but not only that, I have a better understanding of the following: there is no healing of formed neuropathways, there is no undoing of pathways that were formed in those early years, pathways cemented with strong emotion.

Healing is about adding pathways to our brain aka learning, but not the dry, academic kind of learning, but new emotional experiences. For example: it is a wonderful thing that you practice do-no-harm to your husband, but unless you experience a new sense of deep appreciation of him, a deeper connection with him (new pathways), you will still be distracted and wanting to respond to people-of-no-consequence in your life, instead of attending to him (old pathways).

Do I make sense to you?

anita