Dear Anita,

I can see in you, and can tell you know all too well “what behavior is right and what is wrong.”  I can see this about you clearly. It is something I believe requires a high level of self awareness, and experience.

I, too, am getting there now.  I notice something about this – because I have gotten so much better about knowing right vs. wrong behaviors – for me, with confidence, it has also added to increased pressure.  Pressure to do ‘right” considering, I now know what is right – i feel well then why wouldn’t I do that, or choose that.  Cali Chica no longer is in the dark, and knows, who and what is right vs. wrong.

Thus, I am working on being less critical of this sort of thing, in my own life.

• This reply was modified 5 years, 8 months ago by Cali Chica.