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March 21, 2019 at 8:41 am
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Dear Jay:
I suppose it is about comfort level- it is more comfortable for you for “things to stay- on the surface.. ok-ish” than it is to shake the surface and fix what is underneath the surface.
We do choose comfort over discomfort every time. We shake what is on the surface only when we get uncomfortable with the stench of the goo seeping from underneath.
anita
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