Dear Princess123:

“after 2-3 days I asked him what are your future plans about us”-

1. You can’t get to know a man well enough in 2-3 days to make future plans with him.

2. You should not ask a man what are his future plans for you. You should be in charge of your future plans, plan it with a man you know well. You should not ask a stranger (a man you spent 2-3 days with) what he plans to do with your future!

3. You got to know him well enough to question his motives (“did u come here to have sex?? did u?…I feel like all he want from me is only Sex?… u can talk about romance and kissing and hugging on call but not on this..”), so really, you shouldn’t think about future plans with a man whose motives you question.

4. People say all kinds of things, you shouldn’t assume all that people say to be the truth. It is simply too easy to lie and lots of  people lie. It is common for men to tell women all kinds of things so to have sex, for example: “I love you”,  “I want to spend the rest of my life with you”, “I will find an apartment for us to stay in together”, “I will marry you”, “I will tell my uncle about us”, etc.

How much time does it take for a man to say any one of these sentences? How much money does it cost a man to say these things? Does it take any effort to say these words?-

– and yet, many women take these words in as if they were something so precious-

– these are only words.

* I will soon be away from the computer for about 14 hours. If you post before I return to the computer I will be glad to read and reply to you when I am back.

anita