JC,

Dr. Joy Browne had a rule, do not date until one year after the divorce papers are signed.  I think this is a good rule for it gives the person a year to be emotionally on their own, to recover from the marriage, to figure out who they are and what they want, to be an independent person without a partner.

Jumping into another relationship seems like a good idea but this is what they call a rebound.  She is looking for someone who is not like her ex, who can give her what she missed in her marriage, who is more fill-in-the-blank (e.g. emotionally available, sexually alive/adventuresome, etc.).

You are now experiencing this woman’s discovery that she needs to figure out who she is and what she wants.  One month is not enough time to do that.  I would walk away.

Mark