Dear Ashley:

I didn’t have an insight in mind that I wished to communicate to you. I ask questions looking for answers. Sometimes it takes asking more questions. It is sort of shining a light in a dark room in this corner or that one, looking for possible answers. It is up to you of course, to engage with me in such a process.

Can you give me an example of what you said to a person just before that person told you that you are condescending, and what you said to the person after hearing the condescending comment?

anita